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Mullein Essence for Intimacy: 
Strength with Softness
©2002 Rhonda PallasDowney
mullein in bloomMullein is a commonly-found, powerful, multifaceted plant that goes back into ancient history as a healing herb with many purposes. It is also a useful homeopathic remedy for coughs and a broad list of other symptoms.

As a flower essence, Mullein may be appropriate for those who:

  • Lack acceptance and awareness of their own inner worth and values.
  • Experience depression, fear, abandonment, sadness, irritability, anxiety, and/or impatience who are unwilling or tired of listening to other people's problems, so they are grumpy and impatient.
  • Are overbearing and aggressive and who force issues with others
  • Lack intimacy in relationships and want to soften their masculine nature yet stay strong in their positive masculine traits.
  • Lack incentive, focus, purpose, and direction and have lost touch with their own inner light and truths.

    Doctrine of Signatures and Essence Properties
    Mullein's stalk is stout, thick, and tall, and its base is especially strong. The entire plant is soft, fuzzy, hairy, and velvety. The mullein's phallus-shaped terminal spike filled with flowers also represents strength with softness, promoting intimacy and gentleness.

    Mullein The densely packed, lemon-yellow cuplike flowers, flower buds and seeds are securely protected in the soft, woolly, phallic spike, demonstrating emotional openness yet a tightness offering security, protection, and personal space. This signature relates especially to men who are seeking true intimacy and security in expressing a soft, gentle, humble nature, or for women who want to strengthen yet soften their masculine nature. This signature also may refer to males with both strength with softness, or to helping males relate with others in strength and softness, learning to give lots of "warm fuzzies."

    Mullein's traditional use as a torch or candlestick -- in addition to the way the densely packed yellow flowers and buds circle around and upward toward the top of the spike giving off a yellowish light -- is a signature of its ability to promote focus and purpose, thus guiding us toward our own inner sensed and encouraging us to share light with others in an effortless and steadfast way.

    The softly colored yellow flowers correspond to our third chakra and our emotional relationships within ourselves and with others. These emotions may include depression, fear, abandonment, irritation and sadness, yet with the ability to relax and let go. They also help us awaken and stir our unconscious minds, which in turn heightens our consciousness and teaches us to live and act according to our inner truths and values. The orange stamens and anthers refer to our second chakra, or creative and sexual selves, activating feelings of optimism and joy.

    The woolly, earlike signature reminds us to listen to our inner selves and to others as they communicate with us.

    The incredible absorbency of mullein leaves (photo below) is a powerful signature of the plant. They act as a relaxant, and they promote absorption in cases of accumulations of fluid. Perhaps, on another level, this signature can be related to a person's process of assimilating emotional and mental states that no longer serve them. Through the process of assimilation, the individual is able to take in and absorb at the highest level possible.

    Case History
    fuzzy, soft, absorbant mullein leaves Kristopher, age 18, was experiencing a major life change and crisis when he came to me for a flower-essence consultation. He had recently been involved in a robbery, had been in jail, and was now given probation and allowed to live at home under the guidance of his parents. Kristopher lost his high school scholarship to a private school, and he lost his girlfriend. He was depressed, anxious, frightened, irritable, impatient and angry at himself. He felt abandoned and lonely.

    Kristopher felt an effect of the Mullein flower essence within a few days after he began taking it. "It helped me to feel more centered and calm. It also helped me to look deeper inside and to be more introspective about myself and my values. It made me look closely at myself and the events which led up to the robbery. I've slowed down and take more time to look at things. I also began praying a lot."

    Kristopher's mother made the following comments: "His personality is becoming softer. He's more open and intimate with family members, and he has a greater ability to focus."

    Kristopher took Mullein for several weeks and came back for a refill because he liked taking it is so well and it helped give him a new sense of purpose in life.

    cover Editors Note: This article is from the book The Complete Book of Flower Essences:,  ©2002 Rhonda PallasDowney. Reprinted with permission of New World Library, Novato, CA. Toll-free 800/972-6657 ext. 52.

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Rhonda PallasDowney has a diploma in Homeopathic Medicine and is a fellow, graduate, and tutor with the British Institute of Homeopathy, and a staff member at Arizona School of Integrative Studies, where she teaches herbal studies, plant life, and flower essences. She is a professional in the human services field, and conducts ongoing research into flower essences, color and energy healing, and the chakra system. She lives in Arizona.

    ART CREDITS: Mullein leaves courtesy of the Herbal Medicine Garden; Word of Mouth Web Design and Art Today

    The World Wide Essence Society does not mean to imply any recommendation of nor give certification to any individuals or companies above. This article is provided purely for informational purposes. We ask consumers to make their own determination as to quality of the services and products offered above. This article is not meant to be advice, and the information is not meant to replace medical or psychological treatment.
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