
©2003 by Joyce Mason
New Year's Resolutions are the curse of the modern calendar. Our calendar is not in rhythm with the natural world -- we have not had a timekeeping system in sync with the cosmos and nature for centuries. Our intentions are honorable, but our timing stinks (and here's where our flower friends can really accentuate positive change).
The right timing for new beginnings is at the vernal (spring) equinox, as the astrological sign of Aries gears us up to innovate, target our goals, and just do it. From Winter Solstice on December 21st until Spring Equinox on March 19th, it's time to reflect, slow down, and hibernate... let the old disintegrate and die while the embryonic seed energy builds up for sowing new and wonderful things at the Natural Spring New Year.
At first it may be difficult to buy this idea while your friends run to the gym, devour the latest diet book, and act like time is running out on every personal improvement project they ever considered. Wonder why so many people get sick in winter? They are running (jogging, stair-stepping) against the tide. Not that all good things, especially exercise, should be thrown out with the bath water or New Year's Eve champagne. However, these measures will definitely improve your chances for success: add a big extra dose of seasonal R&R, switch to gentler activities (like walking, yoga and t'ai chi), and honor that start-ups have their season.
Whether you choose January or March, here are some suggestions for flower essences to help create the New You. Consider blending 3 to 5 (or if you're a seasoned essence taker, up to 7) according to your issues and how these capsule descriptions match your goals. Start with one Habit Helper (covered in more depth as the base note remedies) and blend from the other categories those that really feel right.
Habit Helpers
Morning Glory is the AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) of the flower kingdom. It helps break bad habits. Consider it as a cornerstone for any New Year's Resolution Blend that tackles changes in eating, drinking or drug habits, and reprogramming to more healthy rituals. (A bad habit can be a a good ritual not yet evolved.) It is particularly helpful for caffeine addiction, allowing you to tune into the inner (natural) wake-up call of rebirth and new beginnings -- the gift of every dawn and the perennial clean slate of every new day.
Chestnut Bud tackles "not getting it": for when you repeat undesirable behavior patterns without learning from the experience or when you are attached to self-limiting habits. It is ideal for compulsive behavior that seems to short-circuit will or reason, like what happens when we start eating our individual "red light foods." If you can't stop even when you get biofeedback (like a stomachache, headache, or hangover), Bud might be your best bet (the non-beer variety, of course!).
Cayenne breaks habit patterns by firing up the will. It beats inertia when you can't get up for the challenge or hard work ahead. If you're just not a jock, Cayenne can rekindle your pilot light and turn up the flame to get you on the gym circuit or treadmill. This really helps if you're tackling a new program in winter, when even the most fiery folks lose some spark.
Two other tried-and-true essences in this category have in common others' influence (family, community, church) on the way we see ourselves. Sagebrush helps release old habits and self-images that are no longer valid or appropriate. If you can't imagine yourself thin or not smoking, Sagebrush will transform you from the inside out. It helps you let go of anything inessential and find your true core, devoid of others' projections. Walnut works similarly, and a walnut itself hints at how. If you crack one open, notice that the meat is divided into two chambers resembling the lobes of the human brain. Walnut short-circuits years of neurological input that leads to lower-brain, knee jerk reactions. It helps reroute your thinking to a higher plane that results in healthy rituals.
Bottling It
This is only the "short list" -- there are dozens of others which are possible helpers. Consider reading up and finding the essences that fit your resolutions like a glove. But don't forget, flower essence blends are an art, so don't wait for the perfect mix. Start somewhere with those flowers that stand out for you when you read this article. As you begin to gently let go of the old, you can deal with issues a layer at a time with new blends as time goes on.
Happy New Year!
Editor's Note: Two more helpful articles on how to break old patterns can be found here and here.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Joyce Mason is a frequent contributor to Vibration Magazine. To find out more about her and to read her articles from this ezine, click here.
Art Credits: These wonderful images are from vintage cigar labels and are used by kind permission of Cigar Label Junkie.
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